Comments on: artful dodging & the folks i dig

By: Shoshana

Shoshana — Mon, 20 Sep 2004 23:33:19 +0000

Wow – I can sure relate to this one. Only recently have I realized how guarded I am with my feelings. And I have only realized it because a new friend points it out on a regular basis and forces me to express my feelings openly. But as hard as it is to express my feelings openly, I have found that it usually does make things better, and more comfortable, and easier, between us. I sometimes wish it was easier for me. But only sometimes.

By: Michael R

Michael R — Mon, 20 Sep 2004 23:06:58 +0000

I thought of this post while watching parts of “When Harry Met Sally” last night. You’ll notice that in that movie the way they really bond with each other is to talk about how their relationships failed. Strangely, pain can be wonderful.

By: StephanieKlein

StephanieKlein — Sun, 19 Sep 2004 06:19:00 +0000

you’re a fantastic writer. I love this piece.

By: Michael R

Michael R — Sat, 18 Sep 2004 02:21:45 +0000

I like to write people letters (and emails) rather than speak to them in person because the emotional intensity is too much; I’m always afraid I’ll cry. And yes, telling people your fears endears them to you much faster than boasting about your strengths.

By: jennn

jennn — Fri, 17 Sep 2004 05:53:50 +0000

I’m a hell of a lot better at admitting things via email too, even to people I’m super close to. I wonder what’s behind that.