Comments on: he said things http://thisfish.com/he-said-things/ Found the bike. Not changing the title. Mon, 06 Apr 2026 05:54:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.4 By: josie http://thisfish.com/he-said-things/#comment-17987 josie Sun, 21 Sep 2008 05:30:34 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=1240#comment-17987 <p>"Better to arrive alone, then badly accompanied"!!! great post by the way:)</p> “Better to arrive alone, then badly accompanied”!!! great post by the way:)

]]> By: carrie http://thisfish.com/he-said-things/#comment-17986 carrie Sun, 24 Aug 2008 10:16:16 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=1240#comment-17986 <p>your writing is poignant, entertaining, and beautifully rhythmic. you could easily be a best-selling author... or are you already?? do tell...</p> your writing is poignant, entertaining, and beautifully rhythmic. you could easily be a best-selling author… or are you already?? do tell…

]]> By: Autumnmoon http://thisfish.com/he-said-things/#comment-17985 Autumnmoon Tue, 18 Mar 2008 06:51:17 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=1240#comment-17985 <p>It is so sad that we hang on the words spoken by a drunk because often they fill our empty vessel....... for the split moment.....their words roll off their tongues and are forever forgotten....by them. We, we tend to remember each of them and remember where we hung them.......and how they hung us.</p><br /><br /><p>Life is so much better for me now....... no longer do drunken words fall on ears that are searching for love.<br /><br />Sadly, it took me decades to "get it".</p> It is so sad that we hang on the words spoken by a drunk because often they fill our empty vessel……. for the split moment…..their words roll off their tongues and are forever forgotten….by them. We, we tend to remember each of them and remember where we hung them…….and how they hung us.

Life is so much better for me now……. no longer do drunken words fall on ears that are searching for love.

Sadly, it took me decades to “get it”.

]]> By: Jacque http://thisfish.com/he-said-things/#comment-17984 Jacque Tue, 05 Jun 2007 07:03:13 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=1240#comment-17984 <p>wow I dont know why we fall into this trap but clearly from everyones comments too many of us have (yes that includes me) luckily I too learned that what was said in the wee hrs, over alcohol, or any other number of random "magical" places was only something pretty he felt like saying because he couldn't think of anything truly honest. The good thing is if we have the right things going on in our lives we can learn to let go of the pretty things that are said and look to the honest circumstances. Thank you for writing this and to anyone who hasnt learned this lesson yet... its a hard one but we're better on the otherside.</p> wow I dont know why we fall into this trap but clearly from everyones comments too many of us have (yes that includes me) luckily I too learned that what was said in the wee hrs, over alcohol, or any other number of random “magical” places was only something pretty he felt like saying because he couldn’t think of anything truly honest. The good thing is if we have the right things going on in our lives we can learn to let go of the pretty things that are said and look to the honest circumstances. Thank you for writing this and to anyone who hasnt learned this lesson yet… its a hard one but we’re better on the otherside.

]]> By: shy http://thisfish.com/he-said-things/#comment-17983 shy Tue, 24 Apr 2007 16:05:13 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=1240#comment-17983 <p>I can tottally relate. At first I thought 'I' was the one who had expected too much. Slowly but surely I am learning that I deserve someone who can give me what I can give them, 'honesty'. It's been a year and I'm still coping. He's moved on, but is full of guilt or atleast he says he his when he's drunk. I am single and he is not, it's hard to deal with but I wouldn't want to be the current girl....I do consider myself lucky to be out of it....but it's hard at times to deal with it all when you're solo and he is not. Thank you for sharing it helps to know that I won't feel this way forever.</p> I can tottally relate. At first I thought ‘I’ was the one who had expected too much. Slowly but surely I am learning that I deserve someone who can give me what I can give them, ‘honesty’. It’s been a year and I’m still coping. He’s moved on, but is full of guilt or atleast he says he his when he’s drunk. I am single and he is not, it’s hard to deal with but I wouldn’t want to be the current girl….I do consider myself lucky to be out of it….but it’s hard at times to deal with it all when you’re solo and he is not. Thank you for sharing it helps to know that I won’t feel this way forever.

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