http://thisfish.com/on-being-uncertain/ Found the bike. Not changing the title. Mon, 06 Apr 2026 05:54:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.4 http://thisfish.com/on-being-uncertain/#comment-38273 Anonymous Mon, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=1819#comment-38273 i think something about the wedding planning process creates doubts. just the act of planning your FOREVER with this person makes alarm bells sound for even the happiest of couples. i was so there (and just celebrated my 6th wedding anniversary). take a deep breath. here's to wishing you the best! i think something about the wedding planning process creates doubts. just the act of planning your FOREVER with this person makes alarm bells sound for even the happiest of couples. i was so there (and just celebrated my 6th wedding anniversary). take a deep breath. here’s to wishing you the best!

]]> http://thisfish.com/on-being-uncertain/#comment-38274 O. Mon, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=1819#comment-38274 I would never have the guts to post something like this publicly, but I've been there. Hang in there Fish! Everything will be fine. I would never have the guts to post something like this publicly, but I’ve been there. Hang in there Fish! Everything will be fine.

]]> http://thisfish.com/on-being-uncertain/#comment-38275 Julie Mon, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=1819#comment-38275 Oh gosh, I've been there, too. That same empty feeling in your gut, not knowing what words to expect next. The words that might say it's over. The miserable night spent pondering if that's the end, etc. Man, I HATE that. And it is true, that once it is said out loud, you can never take it back. There have been things said to me, about me, that I wish I could forget. But they were said, during a moment of anger/uncertainty and the best I could do at the time, was put on a happy face. And it fades over time. The good words far, far, outweigh the bad, and while you're never likely to forget, after a time you are likely not to remember it very often. I'm proud of you for voicing your opinion to the Boy in the first place...that's the hardest step it seems. Oh gosh, I’ve been there, too. That same empty feeling in your gut, not knowing what words to expect next. The words that might say it’s over. The miserable night spent pondering if that’s the end, etc. Man, I HATE that. And it is true, that once it is said out loud, you can never take it back. There have been things said to me, about me, that I wish I could forget. But they were said, during a moment of anger/uncertainty and the best I could do at the time, was put on a happy face. And it fades over time. The good words far, far, outweigh the bad, and while you’re never likely to forget, after a time you are likely not to remember it very often. I’m proud of you for voicing your opinion to the Boy in the first place…that’s the hardest step it seems.

]]> http://thisfish.com/on-being-uncertain/#comment-38276 eringobraugh Mon, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=1819#comment-38276 Thanks again for posting something so real about your life. I have read your posts for a long time and hardly ever commented but I wanted to on this one. I hear you on changes in relationships, my husband has been going through some big changes of his own and I think it takes me willing to change with him to make things work. Thanks again for posting something so real about your life. I have read your posts for a long time and hardly ever commented but I wanted to on this one. I hear you on changes in relationships, my husband has been going through some big changes of his own and I think it takes me willing to change with him to make things work.

]]> http://thisfish.com/on-being-uncertain/#comment-38277 lawyerchik1 Mon, 30 Nov -0001 00:00:00 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=1819#comment-38277 I love the "save the date" cards!! And, I'm actually loving that you guys fight. Everybody does, but it's easy to think that "I'm the only one" when nobody talks about it. Sounds like you guys have a good life ahead of you! :) I love the “save the date” cards!! And, I’m actually loving that you guys fight. Everybody does, but it’s easy to think that “I’m the only one” when nobody talks about it. Sounds like you guys have a good life ahead of you!

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