Comments on: pro http://thisfish.com/pro/ Found the bike. Not changing the title. Mon, 06 Apr 2026 05:54:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.4 By: nozomiyume http://thisfish.com/pro/#comment-28780 nozomiyume Fri, 28 Mar 2008 23:25:37 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=1488#comment-28780 <p>Just found your blog and am poking through posts and I just wanted to say that this line: </p><br /><br /><p>Because it makes you happy to think I'm happy and not because you're afraid I'll be upset if you don't. Simple as that. </p><br /><br /><p>Is one of the hardest, but most desirable qualities to find in someone. Those people really stand out :) </p> Just found your blog and am poking through posts and I just wanted to say that this line:

Because it makes you happy to think I’m happy and not because you’re afraid I’ll be upset if you don’t. Simple as that.

Is one of the hardest, but most desirable qualities to find in someone. Those people really stand out :)

]]> By: lfar http://thisfish.com/pro/#comment-28779 lfar Fri, 22 Feb 2008 22:20:39 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=1488#comment-28779 <p>This post is perfect! It's exactly my opinion!</p> This post is perfect! It’s exactly my opinion!

]]> By: a cynic's voice http://thisfish.com/pro/#comment-28778 a cynic's voice Tue, 19 Feb 2008 11:32:28 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=1488#comment-28778 <p>hate to be the lone voice of skepticism, but something just doesn't seem right about it to me. The vague call, the V-day with friends, the being afraid to do all those mushy V-day rituals with you b/c he's been hurt in the past...? I don't know. It kinda sounds like he was lying, but he's not very good at it, like he was making an excuse for not being with you, on a day, that let's face it, most women make a big deal out of. I don't know, couldn't he have at least stopped by after he went out with his friends, if nothing else just because he knows you like the day. I mean I know you can't forget the past, but what about giving the new person a fresh start. It seems to me you compromised something you liked, and he didn't compromise at all. </p><br /><br /><p>Maybe it's because I've never gotten anything for Valentine's Day, and I've always wanted it, or maybe it's because I witnessed a girl's boyfriend have a dozen roses delivered to her, right before class started in college, that I still believe it's possible. </p><br /><br /><p>There's nothing wrong with not wanting a guy to do all those things if he doesn't really want to. But there is something wrong with him not doing those things, if that's what you really want. </p><br /><br /><p>Why settle? But I don't know, maybe I'm just too much of a cynic.</p><br /><br /><p>Hope you're date on Saturday went well!</p> hate to be the lone voice of skepticism, but something just doesn’t seem right about it to me. The vague call, the V-day with friends, the being afraid to do all those mushy V-day rituals with you b/c he’s been hurt in the past…? I don’t know. It kinda sounds like he was lying, but he’s not very good at it, like he was making an excuse for not being with you, on a day, that let’s face it, most women make a big deal out of. I don’t know, couldn’t he have at least stopped by after he went out with his friends, if nothing else just because he knows you like the day. I mean I know you can’t forget the past, but what about giving the new person a fresh start. It seems to me you compromised something you liked, and he didn’t compromise at all.

Maybe it’s because I’ve never gotten anything for Valentine’s Day, and I’ve always wanted it, or maybe it’s because I witnessed a girl’s boyfriend have a dozen roses delivered to her, right before class started in college, that I still believe it’s possible.

There’s nothing wrong with not wanting a guy to do all those things if he doesn’t really want to. But there is something wrong with him not doing those things, if that’s what you really want.

Why settle? But I don’t know, maybe I’m just too much of a cynic.

Hope you’re date on Saturday went well!

]]> By: Carmen http://thisfish.com/pro/#comment-28777 Carmen Tue, 19 Feb 2008 10:58:10 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=1488#comment-28777 <p>I didn't do **** on Valentine's Day either. Oh well - whatever.</p> I didn’t do **** on Valentine’s Day either. Oh well – whatever.

]]> By: Mike http://thisfish.com/pro/#comment-28776 Mike Tue, 19 Feb 2008 05:40:06 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=1488#comment-28776 <p>So dish, was it all Corverset and slow-jams?</p> So dish, was it all Corverset and slow-jams?

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