Comments on: honesty is https://thisfish.com/honesty-is/ Found the bike. Not changing the title. Mon, 06 Apr 2026 05:54:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.4 By: the janx https://thisfish.com/honesty-is/#comment-2503 the janx Wed, 24 Sep 2003 21:35:45 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=459#comment-2503 <p>imaginary relationships are much easier than the mess that real ones often are. i find it possible to be emotionally involved with someone i haven't even met, maybe just saw across the room, or that i buy my coffee from every morning. we can go through each stage of the relationship with the other person being blissfully unaware, the action, afterall is happening in my head. other pluses include: it's way cheaper than actually dating. no sexual diseases will be transmitted. only one person get hurts in the end. </p><br /><br /><p>but, this is unsatisfying. the need to touch and hold and kiss and share ulitmately supercedes "fantasy girlfriend" and then it's time to be real with someone, or as real as courage (or lack thereof) dictates.</p> imaginary relationships are much easier than the mess that real ones often are. i find it possible to be emotionally involved with someone i haven’t even met, maybe just saw across the room, or that i buy my coffee from every morning. we can go through each stage of the relationship with the other person being blissfully unaware, the action, afterall is happening in my head. other pluses include: it’s way cheaper than actually dating. no sexual diseases will be transmitted. only one person get hurts in the end.

but, this is unsatisfying. the need to touch and hold and kiss and share ulitmately supercedes “fantasy girlfriend” and then it’s time to be real with someone, or as real as courage (or lack thereof) dictates.

]]> By: Texas T-bone https://thisfish.com/honesty-is/#comment-2502 Texas T-bone Wed, 24 Sep 2003 00:07:13 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=459#comment-2502 <p>Advice is only good when it comes from strangers anyway.</p> Advice is only good when it comes from strangers anyway.

]]> By: Gopi https://thisfish.com/honesty-is/#comment-2501 Gopi Tue, 23 Sep 2003 23:36:43 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=459#comment-2501 <p>I've damaged tables and injured people playing pool. I've done that with air-hockey too. Those poor kids at Chuck-E-Cheese.</p> I’ve damaged tables and injured people playing pool. I’ve done that with air-hockey too. Those poor kids at Chuck-E-Cheese.

]]> By: Anne https://thisfish.com/honesty-is/#comment-2500 Anne Tue, 23 Sep 2003 23:00:44 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=459#comment-2500 <p>If we're confessing, I, too, suck at pool.</p><br /><br /><p>And the love thing, too, really.</p> If we’re confessing, I, too, suck at pool.

And the love thing, too, really.

]]> By: Michael https://thisfish.com/honesty-is/#comment-2499 Michael Tue, 23 Sep 2003 22:58:28 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=459#comment-2499 <p>I, too, am curious about the move to Spain. For how long? Where in Spain? Was this during school or after? If after, you are a very brave woman and I envy you. It's been ten - no, eleven - years since I spent my junior year there. I had friends that went back for a year just after graduation and I admired and envied them very much.</p> I, too, am curious about the move to Spain. For how long? Where in Spain? Was this during school or after? If after, you are a very brave woman and I envy you. It’s been ten – no, eleven – years since I spent my junior year there. I had friends that went back for a year just after graduation and I admired and envied them very much.

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