Comments on: not ready https://thisfish.com/not-ready/ Found the bike. Not changing the title. Mon, 30 Mar 2026 21:27:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.4 By: S Coline https://thisfish.com/not-ready/#comment-27953 S Coline Thu, 24 Jan 2008 13:30:54 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=1475#comment-27953 <p>I know you're looking for a "real" job, the kind that pays as you work but have you thought about writing a book? You could stay inside with big hair and a bathrobe all damn day if you wanted - M&Ms, Diet Pepsi included. Plus, you'd give a lot of readers like myself what we want each time we get to the end of your post: MORE.</p> I know you’re looking for a “real” job, the kind that pays as you work but have you thought about writing a book? You could stay inside with big hair and a bathrobe all damn day if you wanted – M&Ms, Diet Pepsi included. Plus, you’d give a lot of readers like myself what we want each time we get to the end of your post: MORE.

]]> By: rg https://thisfish.com/not-ready/#comment-27952 rg Thu, 24 Jan 2008 10:51:18 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=1475#comment-27952 <p>I am so sorry. Take all the time you need to eat chocolate and cry. We all need a little bit of chocolate between the tears now and then.</p> I am so sorry. Take all the time you need to eat chocolate and cry. We all need a little bit of chocolate between the tears now and then.

]]> By: Dateless in Detroit https://thisfish.com/not-ready/#comment-27951 Dateless in Detroit Tue, 22 Jan 2008 07:58:45 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=1475#comment-27951 <p>I'm so sorry. Its always worse when they are a good person. When this happens to me, I almost wish they were an ass, just to make it easier for me to move on. Take your steps you need. <br /><br />cheers.</p> I’m so sorry. Its always worse when they are a good person. When this happens to me, I almost wish they were an ass, just to make it easier for me to move on. Take your steps you need.

cheers.

]]> By: Jamie https://thisfish.com/not-ready/#comment-27950 Jamie Tue, 22 Jan 2008 01:39:19 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=1475#comment-27950 <p>I too had a wonderful man - one who made me feel like there were no other women on earth, one who drove 3 hours once to give me a hug and a kiss - and he too was older. And done with having kids. </p><br /><br /><p>He left me to "be with someone who was at the same place in life". Ironically she ended up pregnant, they ended up married and I was even more heartbroken. </p><br /><br /><p>Until I watched him repeatedly cheat on his wife because he had relationship issues. And I watched her be completely miserable that her "wonderful man" didn't care about her anymore. I have thanked my lucky stars many times that I am not her. </p><br /><br /><p>You never know who people really are and how things will really turn out. I bet you were just saved from some more serious heartache down the road. Plus God won't let you miss the person he has for you. </p><br /><br /><p>You are strong enough to get through this.</p> I too had a wonderful man – one who made me feel like there were no other women on earth, one who drove 3 hours once to give me a hug and a kiss – and he too was older. And done with having kids.

He left me to “be with someone who was at the same place in life”. Ironically she ended up pregnant, they ended up married and I was even more heartbroken.

Until I watched him repeatedly cheat on his wife because he had relationship issues. And I watched her be completely miserable that her “wonderful man” didn’t care about her anymore. I have thanked my lucky stars many times that I am not her.

You never know who people really are and how things will really turn out. I bet you were just saved from some more serious heartache down the road. Plus God won’t let you miss the person he has for you.

You are strong enough to get through this.

]]> By: Jamie https://thisfish.com/not-ready/#comment-27949 Jamie Tue, 22 Jan 2008 01:33:38 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=1475#comment-27949 <p>Hey Fish, I just wanted to second an earlier post that stated how this is his issue with committment. </p><br /><br /><p>I to had a wonderful man - one that drove 3 hours just to give me a hug and a kiss - but who was also older and not wanting anymore children. </p><br /><br /><p>The irony is that he left me to be with someone who "was at the same place in life" as he was. And she ended up pregnant, they ended up married and I was even more heartbroken. Until I watched him repeatedly cheat on his wife, because he has relationship issues. And I watched her be completely miserable because he wasn't the wonderful guy she thought he was either. (We live in a small Midwestern community, I wasn't stalking him! :-)</p><br /><br /><p>I have thanked my lucky stars many times that I am not her.</p><br /><br /><p>Anyways, my point is that people aren't always what they seem and that God won't let you miss the person he has for you. And you are certainly strong enough to get through this.</p> Hey Fish, I just wanted to second an earlier post that stated how this is his issue with committment.

I to had a wonderful man – one that drove 3 hours just to give me a hug and a kiss – but who was also older and not wanting anymore children.

The irony is that he left me to be with someone who “was at the same place in life” as he was. And she ended up pregnant, they ended up married and I was even more heartbroken. Until I watched him repeatedly cheat on his wife, because he has relationship issues. And I watched her be completely miserable because he wasn’t the wonderful guy she thought he was either. (We live in a small Midwestern community, I wasn’t stalking him! :-)

I have thanked my lucky stars many times that I am not her.

Anyways, my point is that people aren’t always what they seem and that God won’t let you miss the person he has for you. And you are certainly strong enough to get through this.

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