Comments on: pub wisdom https://thisfish.com/pub-wisdom/ Found the bike. Not changing the title. Mon, 30 Mar 2026 21:27:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.4 By: Heather https://thisfish.com/pub-wisdom/#comment-4446 Heather Sat, 27 Mar 2004 00:49:01 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=697#comment-4446 <p>Yes, us 21 year olds come out of the woodwork on occasion to enlighten anyone who's willing to listen to our 'sometimes intelligent' words of wisdom. :0)</p> Yes, us 21 year olds come out of the woodwork on occasion to enlighten anyone who’s willing to listen to our ‘sometimes intelligent’ words of wisdom. :0)

]]> By: kristin https://thisfish.com/pub-wisdom/#comment-4445 kristin Thu, 25 Mar 2004 04:25:45 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=697#comment-4445 <p>i like that too. i going to have to write that down. im getting married soon and im having a hard time with it. my mom and step-dad divorced after being married for 18 yrs. how does that happen? my fiances parents had a tumultuous relationship, violent and sad. i had all these ideas about marriage and lately they have been fading and im really trying to grab them as fast as i can before they disappear.</p> i like that too. i going to have to write that down. im getting married soon and im having a hard time with it. my mom and step-dad divorced after being married for 18 yrs. how does that happen? my fiances parents had a tumultuous relationship, violent and sad. i had all these ideas about marriage and lately they have been fading and im really trying to grab them as fast as i can before they disappear.

]]> By: ryan https://thisfish.com/pub-wisdom/#comment-4444 ryan Thu, 25 Mar 2004 01:23:39 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=697#comment-4444 <p>I justified a lot of my last relationship on my folks---figuring that "fighting a lot" is just par for the course in any long-term relationship. </p><br /><br /><p>Well, my folks split up in December, and I have a better sense now that there are other paths to be taken, and better ways to go about tolerating one another. Compromise and hurt are always gonna be there in some fashion, it should just be on your own terms more so than our parents'.</p><br /><br /><p>></p><br /><br /><p>cheers!</p> I justified a lot of my last relationship on my folks—figuring that “fighting a lot” is just par for the course in any long-term relationship.

Well, my folks split up in December, and I have a better sense now that there are other paths to be taken, and better ways to go about tolerating one another. Compromise and hurt are always gonna be there in some fashion, it should just be on your own terms more so than our parents’.

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cheers!

]]> By: GrumpyBunny https://thisfish.com/pub-wisdom/#comment-4443 GrumpyBunny Wed, 24 Mar 2004 20:51:13 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=697#comment-4443 <p>Yeah, that's usually the problem. Since it's what we see - especially as children - we assume that's how all families are. Good thing it doesn't have to be some kind of self-fulfilling prophecy.</p> Yeah, that’s usually the problem. Since it’s what we see – especially as children – we assume that’s how all families are. Good thing it doesn’t have to be some kind of self-fulfilling prophecy.

]]> By: Alicia https://thisfish.com/pub-wisdom/#comment-4442 Alicia Wed, 24 Mar 2004 10:38:27 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=697#comment-4442 <p>Hm...I really like that.</p> Hm…I really like that.

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