Comments on: tell all thursday: firsts https://thisfish.com/tell-all-thursday-firsts/ Found the bike. Not changing the title. Mon, 30 Mar 2026 21:27:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.4 By: C https://thisfish.com/tell-all-thursday-firsts/#comment-26489 C Sat, 02 Aug 2008 11:35:52 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=1433#comment-26489 <p>I know this blog was posted awhile ago, but I just read it now, and I had to comment. Sex is not how your mother said it would be, but believe me, I tried my damnest to make it that way. The truth is, it's not special and it's not a big deal. Not suprisingly, my first time was with my first boyfriend who ended up being a real jerk and who, more often than not, forced me into sex with him. After I finally dumped him and tried to believe in love again, I realized, sex does not equal love, or even a guaranteed commitment these days. I suppose it could be that I've just slept with all the wrong men, but truth be told, I'm exhausted from "sexpectations." And sometimes there's just no one out there at the time to love (or to be disappointed by) and a girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do!</p> I know this blog was posted awhile ago, but I just read it now, and I had to comment. Sex is not how your mother said it would be, but believe me, I tried my damnest to make it that way. The truth is, it’s not special and it’s not a big deal. Not suprisingly, my first time was with my first boyfriend who ended up being a real jerk and who, more often than not, forced me into sex with him. After I finally dumped him and tried to believe in love again, I realized, sex does not equal love, or even a guaranteed commitment these days. I suppose it could be that I’ve just slept with all the wrong men, but truth be told, I’m exhausted from “sexpectations.” And sometimes there’s just no one out there at the time to love (or to be disappointed by) and a girl’s gotta do what a girl’s gotta do!

]]> By: YLC https://thisfish.com/tell-all-thursday-firsts/#comment-26488 YLC Thu, 13 Dec 2007 22:45:33 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=1433#comment-26488 <p>Could have gone beyond PG rating, even just a notch. Interesting nontheless.</p> Could have gone beyond PG rating, even just a notch. Interesting nontheless.

]]> By: dtz https://thisfish.com/tell-all-thursday-firsts/#comment-26487 dtz Fri, 12 Oct 2007 18:46:13 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=1433#comment-26487 <p>...as far as 1sts go.. mine haven't been exceptionally climatic neither.. In fact reading this I can honestly say I relate.. (and all along I thought I was the odd one out...)..Emotions and bederoom romps don't have to go together... And i can tell you about regret... Regret when I should have done "it" instead of holding back for another tommorow... An exceptional guy, sadly we're no longer togeter because **** happens... It should have been him (Not in any tearful way, just in plain fact)... Because even when we had to end, we eneded beautifully (sadly, but beautifully)... Now that's regret..... Maybe I'll tell him someday.</p> …as far as 1sts go.. mine haven’t been exceptionally climatic neither.. In fact reading this I can honestly say I relate.. (and all along I thought I was the odd one out…)..Emotions and bederoom romps don’t have to go together… And i can tell you about regret… Regret when I should have done “it” instead of holding back for another tommorow… An exceptional guy, sadly we’re no longer togeter because **** happens… It should have been him (Not in any tearful way, just in plain fact)… Because even when we had to end, we eneded beautifully (sadly, but beautifully)… Now that’s regret….. Maybe I’ll tell him someday.

]]> By: Bad Home Cook https://thisfish.com/tell-all-thursday-firsts/#comment-26486 Bad Home Cook Wed, 10 Oct 2007 08:30:36 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=1433#comment-26486 <p>Oh, you have no idea how prescient that post was. Did I spell that right?<br /><br />Thank you!</p> Oh, you have no idea how prescient that post was. Did I spell that right?

Thank you!

]]> By: angelawd https://thisfish.com/tell-all-thursday-firsts/#comment-26485 angelawd Wed, 10 Oct 2007 05:07:49 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=1433#comment-26485 <p>Your post has been on my mind all weekend - so much that I posted on it today. Here's a link:</p> Your post has been on my mind all weekend – so much that I posted on it today. Here’s a link:

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