Comments on: wearin’ a cynic suit under my bathrobe https://thisfish.com/wearin-a-cynic-suit-under-my-bathrobe/ Found the bike. Not changing the title. Mon, 30 Mar 2026 21:27:48 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.4 By: Pascha https://thisfish.com/wearin-a-cynic-suit-under-my-bathrobe/#comment-27870 Pascha Sun, 20 Jan 2008 13:57:02 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=1474#comment-27870 <p>Hehe...I get confused easily, I guess. I was confusing her with someone named Goldner, I think. A friend of Torrie's? And yours?</p> Hehe…I get confused easily, I guess. I was confusing her with someone named Goldner, I think. A friend of Torrie’s? And yours?

]]> By: Pascha https://thisfish.com/wearin-a-cynic-suit-under-my-bathrobe/#comment-27869 Pascha Sat, 19 Jan 2008 05:18:59 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=1474#comment-27869 <p>Um, I meant "he" rocks. Sorry, Ari. </p><br /><br /><p><b>From This Fish:</b> Actually, Pascha, I changed that for you. Ari is most definitely a "she." ;)</p> Um, I meant “he” rocks. Sorry, Ari.

From This Fish: Actually, Pascha, I changed that for you. Ari is most definitely a “she.” ;)

]]> By: Pascha https://thisfish.com/wearin-a-cynic-suit-under-my-bathrobe/#comment-27868 Pascha Fri, 18 Jan 2008 09:16:14 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=1474#comment-27868 <p>My comment in the previous post came off as a, "Look, I'm living a happily ever after life!" I didn't mean it that way. It still hurt like hell. I don't think I'll ever forget the image of the man I loved in bed with another woman. And even though I met the man I eventually married only weeks after the breakup, I was still hurting. I'm surprised my husband stuck with me through the "getting through it" process. (And I forgot to mention, the past THREE relationships I had before meeting my husband all ended because the guy cheated on me.) Insecure much? Yup. But he was able to see through the mess that I was, and continued to show me what love really is, that you shouldn't compromise what you want in a relationship.</p><br /><br /><p>He is by no means perfect, but he's perfect for me. I never thought I'd be thankful for the heartache I endured, but it showed me what I wanted and taught me to settle for nothing less. My beautiful daughter and husband remind me of that everyday. </p><br /><br /><p>Heather, go enjoy your friends like Ari. She rocks.</p> My comment in the previous post came off as a, “Look, I’m living a happily ever after life!” I didn’t mean it that way. It still hurt like hell. I don’t think I’ll ever forget the image of the man I loved in bed with another woman. And even though I met the man I eventually married only weeks after the breakup, I was still hurting. I’m surprised my husband stuck with me through the “getting through it” process. (And I forgot to mention, the past THREE relationships I had before meeting my husband all ended because the guy cheated on me.) Insecure much? Yup. But he was able to see through the mess that I was, and continued to show me what love really is, that you shouldn’t compromise what you want in a relationship.

He is by no means perfect, but he’s perfect for me. I never thought I’d be thankful for the heartache I endured, but it showed me what I wanted and taught me to settle for nothing less. My beautiful daughter and husband remind me of that everyday.

Heather, go enjoy your friends like Ari. She rocks.

]]> By: Ari https://thisfish.com/wearin-a-cynic-suit-under-my-bathrobe/#comment-27867 Ari Fri, 18 Jan 2008 07:28:33 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=1474#comment-27867 <p>Wow Stephanie; what a miserable, cruel and petty little bitch you are. Like it's <i>offensive</i> to want to birth your children. <b>Not that that's even what she wrote</b> so add illiterate to my list of complaints about you. Whatever your glaringly obvious issues are, you alone chose to bring them here and twist Heather's words so you could vent and spew out your little bits of venom. This post wasn't about you, adoption or the morality/consideration of it.</p><br /><br /><p>You should get your stupid head out of your stupid ass and realize that. But I bet being a bitch sure did feel good for an empty second, didn't it? What a familiar feeling that must be for you.</p> Wow Stephanie; what a miserable, cruel and petty little bitch you are. Like it’s offensive to want to birth your children. Not that that’s even what she wrote so add illiterate to my list of complaints about you. Whatever your glaringly obvious issues are, you alone chose to bring them here and twist Heather’s words so you could vent and spew out your little bits of venom. This post wasn’t about you, adoption or the morality/consideration of it.

You should get your stupid head out of your stupid ass and realize that. But I bet being a bitch sure did feel good for an empty second, didn’t it? What a familiar feeling that must be for you.

]]> By: sarah g https://thisfish.com/wearin-a-cynic-suit-under-my-bathrobe/#comment-27866 sarah g Thu, 17 Jan 2008 23:31:14 +0000 http://thisfish.com/?p=1474#comment-27866 <p>hi. i wasnt going to commment. what is there to say really? but wow. people can be harsh. if i had to read these after a break up, i would have been mad. you put your heart out there to share, and wow. <br /><br />i dont have any wisdom, no one can. you did what you had to do. good for you. YOU know you. thank you for sharing it with us. <br /><br />i'm sorry. it sucks. and i have no cliches. i have no nice words. other than that i'm glad that you have people like ari who love you to be there to help. <br /><br />i hope that your next bike ride goes better : )</p> hi. i wasnt going to commment. what is there to say really? but wow. people can be harsh. if i had to read these after a break up, i would have been mad. you put your heart out there to share, and wow.

i dont have any wisdom, no one can. you did what you had to do. good for you. YOU know you. thank you for sharing it with us.

i’m sorry. it sucks. and i have no cliches. i have no nice words. other than that i’m glad that you have people like ari who love you to be there to help.

i hope that your next bike ride goes better : )

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