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	<title>Comments on: you q, i&#8217;ll a: the 2011 edition</title>
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	<description>Found the bike. Not changing the title.</description>
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		<title>By: thisfish</title>
		<link>https://thisfish.com/you-q-ill-a-the-2011-edition/#comment-38434</link>
		<dc:creator>thisfish</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Feb 2011 16:46:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, I have. Though, fundamentally it was a really effed up relationship anyway, so that just made it all the more awful. I wish I had advice that was based on success. From what I&#039;ve learned, though, I say, make time. If you&#039;re both making time every day to be present for the other person, you&#039;ll do a whole lot better than I ever did.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, I have. Though, fundamentally it was a really effed up relationship anyway, so that just made it all the more awful. I wish I had advice that was based on success. From what I&#8217;ve learned, though, I say, make time. If you&#8217;re both making time every day to be present for the other person, you&#8217;ll do a whole lot better than I ever did.</p>
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		<title>By: Carly</title>
		<link>https://thisfish.com/you-q-ill-a-the-2011-edition/#comment-38433</link>
		<dc:creator>Carly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Feb 2011 16:39:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Have you ever been in a long distance relationship? Any advice?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever been in a long distance relationship? Any advice?</p>
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		<title>By: AspiringErin</title>
		<link>https://thisfish.com/you-q-ill-a-the-2011-edition/#comment-889</link>
		<dc:creator>AspiringErin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Jan 2011 17:18:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks! I think good writing speaks for itself :)Good luck with the wedding planning!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks! I think good writing speaks for itself <img src='http://thisfish.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> Good luck with the wedding planning!</p>
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		<title>By: thisfish</title>
		<link>https://thisfish.com/you-q-ill-a-the-2011-edition/#comment-769</link>
		<dc:creator>thisfish</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Jan 2011 16:39:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I used to read SO MANY blogs. I love blogs - but that&#039;s the problem, I guess. Once I start, I could read for hours and hours and these days, I just don&#039;t have that kind of time. Or any desire to lose my job ;) Now I mostly keep up with friends or if I do find a great, new blog - I don&#039;t add it to my favorites at work. I just don&#039;t have the willpower. 
I actually have no idea how to promote a blog or drive up traffic. Isn&#039;t that sad? My traffic is mostly the same folks over and over - people who&#039;ve been reading for years. And even that was accidental/incidental!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I used to read SO MANY blogs. I love blogs &#8211; but that&#8217;s the problem, I guess. Once I start, I could read for hours and hours and these days, I just don&#8217;t have that kind of time. Or any desire to lose my job <img src='http://thisfish.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  Now I mostly keep up with friends or if I do find a great, new blog &#8211; I don&#8217;t add it to my favorites at work. I just don&#8217;t have the willpower.<br />
I actually have no idea how to promote a blog or drive up traffic. Isn&#8217;t that sad? My traffic is mostly the same folks over and over &#8211; people who&#8217;ve been reading for years. And even that was accidental/incidental!</p>
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		<title>By: Clare</title>
		<link>https://thisfish.com/you-q-ill-a-the-2011-edition/#comment-748</link>
		<dc:creator>Clare</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Jan 2011 07:45:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tea-length dress - oh dear, that&#039;s gorgeous (just what I want, too, except maybe with lace cap sleeves). Will you wear a head piece? My friend makes beautiful birdcage veils (she&#039;s in Brisbane, Australia, so not much help but still...)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tea-length dress &#8211; oh dear, that&#8217;s gorgeous (just what I want, too, except maybe with lace cap sleeves). Will you wear a head piece? My friend makes beautiful birdcage veils (she&#8217;s in Brisbane, Australia, so not much help but still&#8230;)</p>
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