This Fish Needs A Bicycle

i wish i were you ;)

niiiiice.. a proposal for a threesome and it only took one year of being here for it to happen (^_^)

sharing was always over-rated anyway.

I don't believe sharing is good for one's self esteem or ego.

Wow....what a story. Movie-star handsome man with gorgeous and exotic girlfriend...would have made for a great chronicle :)

I am not comfortable sharing you, H.

don't do it, girl. two chics on one bicycle (with only one seat, mind you!) only makes for a really uncomfortable ride. you deserve your very own bicycle, like one of those huffy's that make you petal really fast and get your heart beating so quickly you can hardly breathe. and you get the seat all to yourself.

It's like one of those really sappy movies mixed with a porn, come to life.

Never hurts to have an offer put on the table. Quite the compliment really. Good for you!

Images of Seinfeld. You'd have to get a silk rob, bear-skin rug, all types of lotions. You'd have to get orgy friends.

oh WOW! that is certainly quite a proposal. i don't share well either, so i'd have to decline as well ... but what a compliment! :)

sharing is sooo passe. :) Not that I'd know. I think it would drive me crazy. So, I officially decline from all proposals from here on out, even the made up ones.

weird, the same thing happened to me this weekend. Except the couple had a botoxed look not an exotic one... i gave them the same exact answere when they asked why not. i said, "sorry, i don't like to share."

I can't believe that stuff actually happens in NYC. It is like a totally different world...that shit only happens in movies. But I guess coming from Kentucky, I am not really exposed to that sort of stuff.

This reminded me of an old song: "if you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife. Just from my personal point of view, get an ugly girl to marry you."

I can't help but think that if either (or both) of the couple was less than "movie-star" gorgeous, the proposal wouldn't have seemed as flattering.....

But that's just me. I not only don't *like* to share, I flat out refuse and have been known to tell bicycles who don't get that to find another fish! :)

Maybe I live in a bubble, but I was born in NY, lived here for YEARS and I never, ever encounter things like that...I think I have rose colored glasses permantently installed on my face.

good for you, fish. you deserve better (but at least you got the momentary thrill of being asked). nobody likes to be home alone on prom night.

I don't know... I'm very happily married BUT let me tell you...
I regret not partaking in some offers that were made to me before I met my husband.

Wowha! People actually do that-- seriously propose a threesome to a stranger? I've seen Sex and the City, but I never thought people would actually DO that. The things you learn on the internet...

I don't like to share either. but now, I'm wondering why I have never been asked.

I dont recommend sharing....One of you always end up on the floor with your feelings hurt...lol Great story!

As they say at the Oscars, "it's an honor just to be nominated."

Yum and yet, eww at the same time. I can't help but think that couples who are into that don't truly care about each other the way it matters. There are certain visuals re: my man that I could definitely live without. Nicely written story!

I was asked once...it was creepy...because the couple was neither exotic or botoxy. In fact, I would like to erase that memory from my mind. Forget I mentioned it. ugh.

Well, here in San Francisco you never really know who's going to ask next. Boy, girl, couple (of any variety)... sometimes you're not even sure which category they fall in to... But usually it's flattering to have been asked all the same. Except when it's REALLY creepy.

if you were to get involved in such a tryst, your role would've been the desirable one in my mind. nice bit of storytelling.

Re: "... couples who are into that don't truly care about each other the way it matters"

I think it's the opposite. I think their relationship is the type where they can be completely truthful and honest to eachother about what they like and what turns them on. That doesn't sound too bad to me.

isn't it strange that apart from a few comments, the question of morals always comes back ? Sorry to say this as bluntly but it's so american.

Isn't a blog a personal thing offered to others, but NOT to their judgement ? I mean really I don't care about advices or morals.

There is so much to say about this but folks, you spoiled a great story with your comments.

And I really mean a beautiful one.

cheers

One of the beauties of commenting is the reflection on one's own set of morals (or lack thereof in others). That's what happens when you put things out in the public sector - sorry, schuey, but storytelling or no, this type of story will draw comments of the moral/ethical variety because sex is so personal and life-altering.

But, hey. You get to comment, too, so there you have it!

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... is the loneliest number that you ever do.

Yes, it is an offer I have also received. Nice, yes. Intriguing, certainly! But sharing... hmmmm... maybe not.

ooo you swapped spit with a stranger in a bar?

Nope. The kiss was more or less closed-mouth. Hot, but chaste. :P

Hm. I'd go for the girl and forget the guy. I guess I don't share well, either. ;)

EEEwwww! you don't know where that mouth has been.
on second thought...i'm going out tonight, to try that move on someone...if i can't find a cutie. i'll let you know how it goes.

I second Petite with the ewwwwwwwww. I would not feel flattered by a swinger.

Thank goodness you declined. The experience would have made for great writing but nothing else comes to mind. I would have been mordified after it was over.

Regardless of moral inclination, swapping spit, or any possible outcomes, the bottom line is that this bit was enticingly written...and aside from my own thoughts on the act...I was "moved" by the description. In fact, If it had been me, I would have been flustered. I'm glad that Fish could share the experience so eloquently. And handled herself so gracefully.

Great story but is it true

That was definitely exciting! And very well told Fish.

I had an experience like that, in a resort bar in Palm Springs. Although the couple was not model/actor gorgeous, they were attractive, goodlooking, and had the foreign accent of, I can't remember, although it sounded English. (I had had way too much to drink to remember it all that clearly.)

If it can happen in Palm Springs CA it most definitely happens in NYC. (Just my assumption here)

Great story Fish! :-)

Damn! makes my recent little dancer story from a last weekend sound like child's play!
Great read! Great blog !

C.

Sharing is hard but can be rewarding. ;)

In reading your Blog I now realize you and I are from the same place in Texas.....
You may or may not be gratified to know that these things happen in your old home town... and it's worth trying. At least once :)

Kat

sometimes, even with the prospect of sharing, it's worth ticking off of your list.

besides, did you ever consider that YOU'D be the one shared?