While we were at a funeral this afternoon, someone smashed in our apartment door and took everything. Everything. The laptops we got as a wedding gift from the Boy’s parents. PS3. The router. Phone chargers, for pete’s sake. Anything they could carry. I think I might throw up. Or hit something.
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I’m so sorry to hear this. I have chills right now. And while you were at a funeral, no less.
Oh that just sucks, I have had that happen to me before. Just what you didn’t need. Nothing removes the sense of violation. Please tell us that you have insurance???
P.S. – maybe too soon for this, but at least you will have a Black Opps break.
Sensitivity fail.
teri, I appreciate your levity during a traumatic, difficult event. It’s the laughter that gets us (well, me, at least) through trying situations.
Chins up, Fish and Dork. xoxo
My heart just sank for you. I am so sorry and if we fish fans can in anyway offer any kind of help please let us know. I can only imagine the realm of emotions you must be feeling right now. Sending you prayers. xoxox
I am so sorry! My home was broken into before, and you feel totally violated. Thats why we have insurance. Hope they catch the bastards! Maybe you can release the honey badger on them. Cause honey badger don’t give a sh*t!
Didn’t want to read and run but pretty much all I can think of to say is that really really sucks. I hope you’re okay.
that is awful!! those horrible people! when you say everything, do you mean, furniture too? or mainly electronics? this makes me sick for you…I’m so sorry
Oh no
That is awful.
It could be argued that your place had been cased in the past. The burglars may have known that Sariic was there up to a few weeks ago. When they came back through and realized you he was out of the picture, they hit you. Dogs are the number one burglar deterrent in the world.
I know that makes be sound like an overly pragmatic prick. I feel for you guys. It really sucks.
another sensitivity fail
Disagree, half-fail. Some of us are more analytical than others. Doesn’t mean my heart didn’t break for them.
Don’t you worry, Mike. I took it exactly as you meant it. We’ve had a few conversations about what would have happened if our old, deaf dog had been alive/home. It’s hard not to speculate.
This is terrible news, Heather…I’m so sorry! Seems like the Universe just won’t give you a break and that breaks my heart. I don’t have much but donated a little something…at least you can get a new charger.
We are thinking of you and sending love your way!
Sucks Heather! I remember living in Miami, years ago and someone stealing an old vacuum cleaner from our screened in porch. They didn’t get into our apartment proper but it still was an unsettling feeling.
I’m so sorry. My heart sank as I read it. I can’t imagine the shock and feelings you both are having.
I am so, so sorry. I can’t even imagine the pain.
OMG! I am so sorry to hear this, Heather. And I’m sorry for the pain you feel for being violated.
What can I(we) do to help!? Seriously!
I just honestly feel sick for you both. I had a company laptop stolen out of my rental car about eight years ago, and it still bothers me. Such a violating feeling.
I am so sorry… This happened to me before and the feeling of being violated was overwhelming and awful. This sucks!
I dropped a little something in the donation pot. I hope others do to. Pay it forward people. I have had lots of people hold me up mentally and financially over the last few years when I had struggles and hard times. I have read and seen how hard you have worked over the last year to be debt free and do the right thing (and inspire me in the process) and you didnt deserve this especially just as you are planning your wedding. Any chance I get I will drop a little more in the donation bucket and I hope all of the Fish fans out there do to. Good luck and please let me know if there is anything I can do to help.
That just caps a day of bad and sad news. I’m so sorry to hear that happened to you guys. I hope that they catch the a-holes who stole your stuff and that you guys have insurance.
Oh, no. This is one of my worst nightmares. I’m so sorry.
Also…I don’t know if this is appropriate, and if it’s not, delete my comment. But there is a paypal donate button up and to the right…
Fish,
Wishing you comfort and safety and the space to be as angry as you need to.
Much love.
I am so, so sorry.
Heather,
I am so sorry this happened to you. My parents were the victims of an armed robbery in their garage many years ago. And their home was broken into again in Nov of 09. That time the intruders took the time to tag the inside of their home and tag my folks dog. I’ve never been so livid in my life. Material things can be replaced you on the other hand cannot. I know it is infuriating and I feel ya. When you are back online let us know what we can do to help? I rather think your community is going to step up in a big way. BIG hugs to you and yours.
All the best,
Sam
Can’t *believe* I didn’t ask earlier: how is Sir Hal?!
I’m SO sorry. My heart sank too when I read this.
I’ve been reading for *years* and have never commented, but I really wanted to tell you how sorry I am about this. I gasped and shouted at my boyfriend like my best friend had been robbed – just saying that I really, really feel for you and hope you have all the help and support you can get right now. I’ll be dropping whatever I can in the paypal bucket and I hope others do the same. Sending good vibes your way.
I feel the same. I rarely comment, even though I read the blog obsesively, but it feels important to say something. I feel so horrified for you as though this has happened to someone very close to me. I hope that the kind comments and support that have been offered here can help you in a way, even though what’s happened can’t be changed.
Ugh.. I’m so sorry this happened. I hope that insurance will help to recoup the cost of the items taken, and that mentally you guys can feel safe again.
WTF?! I’m so sorry, what a horrible day. I’m angry for you and ready to kick some ass.
Heather I am so sorry to hear that this happened to you. I can’t even begin to express how horrible I felt when I read this post. You didn’t deserve to have this happen to you.
Your writing has always been so inspiring and thoughtful and while my little donation probably doesn’t equal the years of thought provoking writing I hope that it helps some.
Oh, Heather, I’m so sorry. As long as Sir Hal is ok and you and the DL weren’t hurt, the rest is just stuff. It sucks, TONS, and it will be a while before you get past the feeling of being violated, but I’m grateful that you weren’t home when it happened.
I’ve been robbed before as well, so I do know how you feel. In the end…it’s just stuff, and you and your man have each other to hold onto.
Sending prayers for peace your way.
Dana, I know you preferred you comment not be published, but I’m really so sad for your loss. Something like that happened here in my town, and I think of the woman almost every morning. I…well, I’m thinking of you, and your Mom.
Thank you, RzDreams. It’s a hard thing to handle. In some ways it was doubly difficult as she had worked for our local PD for 30+ years (where I also work) and had only recently retired–so the folks doing the hard work considered her to be family.
Also thanks to Fish for editing, as I requested. I don’t want this to become about me when this is Fish’s space and time for comfort
Ack! Sorry for misspelling your name! My fingers ran away and I can’t edit!
I don’t even know what to say; I’m just so sorry. I wish I could crawl through the internet and give you a hug!
My prayers go out to you both. Thank goodness you weren’t hurt.
How awful!
I’m so sorry Heather! The Universe is testing you two for sure.. I know the feeling. Even though I have my own unexpected expenses ($3000 ER bill.. AFTER insurance :/) I am going to drop a little in your donation box. I know every bit will help. Hope you have renter’s insurance and we can knock your deductible down! {{HUGS}}
I am so sorry for both you Heather and the Dork Lord.
I just donated in your tip jar and I sincerely hope my small contribution will help re-furnish the missing pieces in your home. Or if you have insurance go towards your excess. Now shhh don’t tell my fiance i stole it out of our wedding fund…
Oh Fish – I am so, so, so sorry to hear what happened. People can be so thoughtless and cruel. Someone broke into my car about 12 years ago – to steal a cordory jacket and a beat up old backpack full of tapes, of all things! I still remember how violated I felt. I hope the love and support you feel from those of us who’ve never met you in person, but dearly love you (and by extension, the Boy) helps a little. Because we DO love you. And are wishing all sorts of karmic justice on those people who are miserable enough to take what doesn’t belong to them. I know prayers aren’t really your thing – but I’m keeping you in mine anyway. (And a little for the tip jar too!)
I am soooo sorry sweetie! I’ll be praying for you
Flat. Out. Sucks. Karma is a be-otch though. Take solace in that. I’ve seen her kick some ass. I will be visiting ye olde tip jar too. Echoing above hopes that you have insurance and all important items on laptops were backed up and not accessible to the bastards. And yes…how is Sir Hal?
Wow, that totally sucks. Hope you have good insurance. Somebody needs to catch these guys and then sick a Honey Badger or two on ‘em.
So sorry to hear this Heather, and I will just think that by this God has saved you from anything worse.
I am heartbroken for you guys. I had someone smash the rear window on my new car once when it was parked in front of my house. They went through everything in my car, but the only thing they stole was my temporary license plate, which expired in 5 days. Words could never describe how violated and unsafe I felt. I hope our contributions help, and I hope they catch the bastard(s). But more than anything I hope you guys get your sense of safety back. And I’m glad you weren’t hurt.
Am I allowed to swear? Because I am swearing. I’ll do it in my head.
I’m so sorry to hear this – all of this. My heart really goes out to you in a time of loss, and for losing your things. Wish I could help! Thoughts from Korea!
I am so sorry to read this news, it really really sucks. Hang in there!
Heather,
I’m so sorry,I know you must feel very violated but I’m thankful that you both still have life, hope sir Hal is ok?
Yes, thank you, Hal is fine. I would have been absolutely devastated if he were hurt or had gotten out during the robbery.
Heather,
Stay strong. I cannot imagine how you feel. I just hope that nasty bug in your vent found a way out and crawled into their bag. He would definitely eat their faces off.
OMG. He *would* eat their faces off. That would be sweet revenge.
I got this card from a friend recently:
– Sometimes when bad things happen, I want to call God and say, “Dude, WTF?”
Respectfully, of course. –
So, so, so effing sorry. Wish I could say something more … inspiring, but I doubt you want inspiring. I swear, you guys are building up such good karma right now.
Oof.
“– Sometimes when bad things happen, I want to call God and say, “Dude, WTF?”
Respectfully, of course. –”
THAT, is awesome.
In the midst of my sadness and anger at the situation I read this and laughed my ass off
Like everyone else I’m happy that Fish, DL and Hal are safe.
~H
Sorry to hear about this. We had that happen to us when we were out of town on Memorial Day weekend one year. It’s surreal and scary.
I bought this when I moved into an apartment by myself.
http://www.shophometrends.com/product.asp?pn=037033
It gives you some piece of mind at night. Hope things get better soon and they catch the bastards.
I am so so sorry. I don’t have anything else to say – sometimes I just don’t understand what is wrong with people in this world.
I’m so sorry to hear! Hopefully, your insurance will cover most of your things. It is one of the most violating experiences a person can have happen to them.
Hang in there, it will get better.
Oh my gosh… I’m so sorry to hear what happened! It leaves me speechless that the world can be so cruel to people that are so good. I can only imagine what you are going through…
Why are the bad people so good at being bad?
Oh no! My heart goes out to you. Stay strong.
I’m so very sorry that this happened you two. There are too many disgusting, low people in this world…I just don’t get it!
I’m so sorry, Heather… how awful! My friend was robbed on Christmas Eve DAY, including every present under the tree. I think the feeling of violation from knowing that a stranger was in your home and took your things must be way worse than the loss of whatever was taken. I hope everything works out okay… and hey, maybe this is a sign that you should seriously consider that house you looked at on Sunday?
Aw, crap. That really sucks. Not only losing your stuff, but the feeling that your home has been violated.
I’m glad that Hal is OK, and that you and the Dork Lord are safe.
Oh Heather! I am soooo sorry that this happened to you both.
That is a horrible violation and so difficult.
Do you have insurance? If not, let us know what was stolen and maybe some of your followers can help.
I’m so sorry
I’m so sorry to hear this, H. I’m glad, too, that no one you care about was hurt (or lost!), although I can totally understand the sense of violation. Someone broke into my car about 5 months ago and I barely slept for, like, two-three months after that, thinking that they would get into my condo next. [[[[HUG]]]]
Heather I am so sorry to hear this. I was once robbed by a close family member. Please take a bit of solace in knowing your apartment was robbed for what you had and not who you are.
Oh. My. Gawd. I just cried when I read this. I am so so so sorry… I hope we (the collective hug from the internet) can make you feel a touch bit better during what must be an impossible time for you guys. xxoo
Heather, I’m so sorry this happened to you. I know it’s tacky to put your registry information directly onto an invitation, but maybe it’s not tacky to put it on your blog so loyal readers like myself can help out?? Please do let us know if there’s anything we can do from afar.
Ohhhh Fish. I am so so sorry. I have been through it before and it is such an awful feeling of being violated. And then the pit in ones stomach remains in having to deal with all the practical matters. We are all thinking of your guys.
Heather: Like others I am wondering about insurance. Please tell us you have homeowners coverage.
Nicole and Poette: They DO have a registry. http://www.griffithsquared.com/Wedding/weddingnoflash.html and click on the little package. I was going to give something closer to May but given what has happened I will do it soon…OR you can give a little something via the “she’s my blogger” donate button, above.
I am just heartsick for you. I hope you had renter’s insurance and that they turn out to be a fantastic company. And I hope they catch the bastards.
My father in law just died and as we were leaving for the funeral I was told that the new thing for criminals is to read the obituaries and rob you blind while you’re at the funeral. We had friends staying at the house while we attended the services and patrol cars driving by…the last thing to deal with in that situation. I’m so sorry you were served up both experiences.
Be aware of them potentially coming back once you have all new stuff. (I’m so sorry to offer more scary news, forewarned is forearmed, I hope.)
Yes, definitely be aware of that! I was robbed end of May last year and again the end of August. Too bad for them I hadn’t replaced much, and what I had replaced, I was (still am) taking everywhere with me (laptop, camera). I am so very sorry about what you are going through, I know exactly how you feel and it sucks
I read this and my stomach did a flip. I am so sorry.
There really are no words… =(
Hi Heather,
I’m sorry you’re having to deal with this – on top of everything else. Not that anybody ever needs this, but you guys certainly did not at this point. I hope that you guys had insurance and that you are considering moving. Besides that, I also agree – please let us know where you’re registered. (I know you guys weren’t planning on a registry since you’ve been living together and have pretty much everything you need, but maybe… now is the time to start one?)
Hugs,
Poette
Oh, no. It’s hard to fathom until it happens to you (it has to me). I abhor people who feel that they can take things from others.
I am so, so sorry to read this.
I hope you had insurance. I dropped a little bit in the donation pot to help you recover. I wish I could do more.
I’m so sorry.
BOO!!! I’ve never commented before either, but felt the need. No amazing words of wisdom to share, but know you’ve got a lot of virtual love coming your way. (Ew…that sounded gross.
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I’m so sorry you have to go through this. I hope nothing that can’t be replaced was taken.
As sad as it is, it’s very common to be robbed while at a funeral. They look at the obituaries and hit the families when they know they won’t be home.
I’m am so so sorry to hear about this Heather. If you need someone to punch, I have a long list of candidates. I’m feeling the anger for you as well.
This is so horrible and I am so sorry. My stomach dropped as I read this. I don’t know what else to say except my thoughts are with you guys.
I’m so sorry to read this. I wish I had money so I could donate a whole bunch to you and Mr. Dork. I have friends in Dallas, so if you need to keep an eye on Pawn Shops or anything let me know and I can get the word out.
Keep your heads up and be nice to each other. Sometimes stress makes one forget to be nice to loved ones.
Ugh. This made me feel like I was going to throw up. I am sorry that you even had to be attending a funeral, sorry for the loss. And then to be robbed on top of it. I had my purse stolen some years back, that was a nightmare and I had my locks changed immediately because of course my keys were in the purse as was my driver’s license with my address on it. We also had my boyfriend’s son’s bike stolen from the backyard. It was leaning up against the house. I have been super paranoid ever since.
I hope you get lots of hugs today. I am so sorry!
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I’ve been there. Being robbed is an absolutely awful, scary, queasiness inducing experience. While they took only stuff, they also stole (temporarily) your feeling of safety in your own home. I feel for you.
I am so very sorry, but so very glad that you and the Dork Lord weren’t there when it happened, and that Hal is safe and sound.
I’ve been a long time reader (2005), but don’t comment often. However, my bf’s parents and cousin have both had their homes burglarized in the past few months and when I read this I felt my heart sink for you just as much as it did for them. I really hope that they catch the person that did this to you. *hugs*
P.S. Almost forgot, besides the awful awful discovery coming home, you were at a funeral — I hope it was not someone really close and important to you, and in any case I am sorry for your loss
I am SO sorry!
I’m so sorry Heather.
So sorry to hear about this, Heather. Sometimes horrible things happen to people and there’s no way of preventing it. Just glad to hear that Sir Hal’s okay.
i am so, so sorry to read this! i’m sorry for your loss (both in regards to your possessions and your belongings), i cant imagine how you guys must be feeling…
thinking of you both xoxo
I can’t help but be bothered by the people who have commented saying that they left a donation in the bucket. That’s very tacky. It seems as though you only did it for the recognition(to me anyways).
Heather, my heart breaks for you, DL and Sir Hal. It couldn’t have happened at a worse time. I hope those thieving bastards get what’s coming to them.
Thanks, Carrie. If my dad had his way the thieves would be “buying their tickets to the end of the line.”
Re: other people’s comments – please don’t judge too harshly – I can’t imagine anyone intended to be anything but nice.
I think it’s great (at least for Fish) that people commented about the tip jar. I haven’t donated (yet), but I can’t be certain I would have even remembered it if others hadn’t mentioned brought it up.
I can speak for myself in saying that I left something in the bucket bacause in times of crisis we should rally together. I dont see how anyone on here can get any recognition as we dont know each other. I think your cynicism is misplaced at this moment.
I think under different circumstances I would agree with carriejrose, but under these circumstances I feel like those who have left a tip jar comment are not looking for recognition, they’re looking to let Heather know that we’re all here for her during this crappy time in her life.
A little goes a long way-by the comments you are a well loved person & writer.
So sorry for the massive violation of your home/trust/safety.
Just saw this and am so terribly, terribly sorry for the stress and pain this is causing you. I know that losing the stuff isn’t nearly as hard as losing peace of mind, and I am hopeful for you that you can take solace from the fact that no one can steal what really matters in the long run: your health, the love the two of you share, your sense of humor…and your many fans who enjoy your work and who are sending you a lot of love right now.
Also, I am hopeful that this resolves the way it did for a dear friend of mine. Turned out it was a group of neighborhood kids who robbed him (sounds to me like an amateur job at your house, too, cause who the hell takes phone chargers, they’re pretty much worthless) and one of the kid’s mothers saw all the new stuff they suddenly had and called the police. My friend got all of his stuff back (including his collection of 300+ French Folk music CDs, haha)
I am so sorry Fish.:( I would be so angry, too. One’s home is one’s sanctuary and they violated that.I am glad that you three are ok and that nobody got hurt!
On a universal level, I strongly belive the good outweighs the bad but it still sucks those moments when the scale is tipped the wrong way.
Take care!!!
I’m SO sorry!!!!!
Whoever did this will get what’s coming to them, eventually. I know that’s not much comfort right now, so I’m also sending e-hugs and my best, warmest wishes to you and the DL, and prayers of thanks that neither of you was hurt physically.
Life is so hard. I’m sorry, Heather.
As someone who was violated by the doormat being stolen off her front porch while she house sat for her mother this past week, I can only imagine how you’re feeling. I’m really, truly sorry and so glad Hal managed to remain incognito. (Smart fur ball!)
I am so very sorry this happened to you.
My thoughts go out to you right now…you have so much going on and to have this happen in the middle of it all is awful. Hang in there, Fish…
My heart goes out to you and DL. I hope they find the jerk who violated your sense of safety. I know it’s just “stuff”, but I personally would be inconsolable, and I sincerely hope that your losses are recouped. Hoping an abundance of good luck comes your way very soon…
Oh doll, I know that I am late finding this out, I have been away for too long. I am so sorry that this happened to you. I hope that the police are doing all that they can. I have a security background, and so does my husband. We would be more than willing to give you some advice on securing your new home. I thank the stars that you have found a house, some where you can start new, and hopefully feel safe. You can feel free to email me, if there any questions you have. Again, I am very sorry and very angry at these people for you, it just breaks my heart.
Holy crap is all I can say. Actually, I am sorry as well. I keep with with your blog regularly but had emergency surgery and just had a chance now to catch up, and …well…damn.
Thank you – I hope you’re doing okay. Emergency surgery does not sound fun!
Heather – I am so sorry to hear about this. (I had missed your move back to thisfish.com, so had missed you from my reader. All caught up now) My apartment was broken into about 6 months ago, so I know the violated feeling. And the shock and dismay when you get to your door and things are not right inside. I’m so glad you have DL and Hal there with you. Thinking of you all.